
Highlights from the Parent Education and Support Research
Literature
Our parenting beliefs are deeply placed, often unconscious, and not easily
changed.
- Under stress, parents may continue to parent in ways that are familiar --
even when they have learned new parenting skills, and want to change
their parenting behavior.
When parent education is not effective, it is usually because:
- The program is not meeting the needs and interests of the parents.
- The program in not intense enough — too
little contact over too short of a time period —
for parents to really change their ideas, attitudes, knowledge or
skills.
- The targeted parents may:
- Have cultural values that conflict with what is being taught.
- Believe that what they do has little effect on how their children will
grow and develop.
- Underestimate the chances that their children will be exposed to or
tempted with risk situations and behaviors.
- Believe that the parent education approach is not relevant to their
needs (parents in high risk neighborhoods often believe that their children
must have punishment and rigid guidelines -- just to survive in their
dangerous community).
- Have had negative experiences with other parent education programs
and/or institutions.
- Have difficulty understanding or reading the language.
- Have too many urgent demands in their life and/or very limited free
time.
- Be dealing with overwhelming challenges within their family system —- depression, drug addiction, alcoholism,
illiteracy, limited education, domestic violence, and/or marital conflict.
Packaged curricula may not meet the needs of families in your
community. If you believe that there is a genuine need and that you can
be part of the solution...
- Gather interested parents and community stakeholders
together (or talk with them individually) to map out:
- A clear statement of the current problem/challenge
- The desired outcomes (the changes that will occur for children
because of the intervention being planned for parents) that the parents and
community want to work toward
- Who (the target audience) the "program" will be planned for
- The specific risk factors that the program will address
- The specific changes in parents that the program will be expected to
produce
- Changes in parental knowledge
- Changes in parental attitude
- Changes in parental behavior
- Determine who else needs to be added to your
team. What collaborators do you need to seek out to successfully
address the needs and meet the goals outlined above?
- With the help of key collaborators, learn more about the needs of the
participants and insure that those needs will be addressed.
- Do in-depth interviews, focus groups or observations (when appropriate)
of parents to get input about their strengths, needs, interests, and
expectations.
- With the help of key collaborators and stakeholders (including
parents) develop the goals, mileposts, program content and strategies for this
program. Develop a program plan that
- helps parents
- examine the assumptions they make about parenting
- have opportunities and encouragement for reflecting on their own
perspective and the perspective of others
- identify their own parenting strengths and areas in which they would
like to improve their parenting skills and/or their relationship with
their child.
- be exposed to alternative ways of thinking about parenting
- experience support, understanding, respect and caring from others
- focuses on specific programming issues (when identified
in needs assessment phase)
- Antisocial behavior
—
Parents living in dangerous neighborhoods often
believe that their children need strong discipline to stay safe and out of
trouble. Help parents in dangerous neighborhoods see the advantages of
combining closer supervision and control with discipline that is less
harsh.
- Chronic delinquency
—
The two factors that most strongly predict
delinquencies are a history of antisocial behavior and conduct disorder.
Early interventions which focus on developing children’s verbal abilities
and parents’ nurturing skills are most effective — especially when accompanied by
community-level interventions that address poverty, unsafe neighborhoods
and/or or substance abuse.
- Substance abuse
—
Effective programs target (1) youth, (2) their
parents/families and (3) community risks. Two major challenges of
substance abuse prevention programs are high dropout rates and apparent
lack of interest on the part of parents. To increase chances of success:
(1) involve parents meaningfully in planning the program, and (2) avoid
using a school as the program site.
- Adolescent sexual behavior
— Collect and analyze data on sexual and other
related behaviors among youth in the target community. Involve parents in
community-wide program design and curriculum selection to help allay
fears, convey values, and reinforce program messages.
focuses on parenting at specific stages of development
- Infants and toddlers —
Help parents understand the importance of enriching
early experiences and affection in helping to lay the foundation
for learning and development in later life. Especially when parents cannot
provide stability and loving care, it is important for their children to
participate regularly in quality childcare and early education programs.
- School-age children
—
Help parents see the benefits of an authoritative
parenting style — including warmth, responsiveness and age-appropriate expectations
for social and academic behavior. Emphasize parental involvement in
schools.
- Pre-adolescents
—
Parent-child relationships must change to accommodate
teens’ increasing need to make decisions and take greater responsibility
for their lives. Help parents learn how to involve teens in ways that
strengthen problem solving skills and increase their sense of mastery in
their environment. While peers will become an important part of
adolescents’ networks, they typically do not displace or supplant family
ties — if teens feel
supported and respected by their parents.
focuses on specific groups of parents (when
appropriate)
- Low-income parents. Parents who are unable to provide
basic needs of food, clothing and shelter for their children are not
promising candidates for parent education. "Economic hardship, income
loss, and unemployment have been found to reduce parental responsiveness,
warmth and supervision and to increase inconsistent discipline practices
and harsh punishments" (Hanson, McLanahan & Thomson, 1997). Programs
must first address parents’ ability to provide physical support and safety
before attention can be focused on other aspects of nurturance.
- Teen parents. To promote well-being for both parents
and children
- help teen parents understand how allowing at least 18 months between
pregnancies benefits their child.
- address the conditions in the teen’s daily life that reduced the
personal "cost" of the first birth.
- recognize that teen parents often experience high levels of
depression, which may be associated with the use of alcohol and other
drugs. Early treatment is important to promote the parent’s continued
development and to reduce the risk of child maltreatment.
- include fathers, grandparents and other caregivers in the
programming plan.
- continue "two generation" programs (which include components for
both parents and children) as long as possible. Programs with a
dual focus on parents and children often are limited to the early years.
Child functioning tends to worsen with age, and parenting practices may
also — or the gap in
parenting skills grows more stark as parenting demands increase.
- Fathers. Help fathers find positive models for how to
be more involved with their children. Help mothers and all family members
understand and support (1) the importance of involved fathers. (2)
positive conflict resolution skills.
- Parents in ethnic groups. Programs developed
especially for African-American and Hispanic parents appear to show weaker
effects than traditional behavioral programs. Methodological flaws, common
in much of parenting education evaluation, may have contributed to this
finding.
- Parents with child abuse and neglect potential or confirmed
behavior. Develop your program for pregnant and new parents.
While limiting programs to high-risk parents may be most cost effective,
there are many benefits to offering programs universally -- especially to all teen parents.
- Premature, low birthweight babies born to young (15-24
years of age) mothers of low intelligence are at high risk for poor
parenting, particularly if additional siblings are born within a few
years.
- Programs targeted to parents who treat their babies punitively and
harshly should include:
- Appropriate expectations for child development
- Stress management
- Effective coping strategies
- Effective, non-punitive discipline strategies.
- Single parents. Single parents vary widely
— in their income
levels, values, goals, and how they became single parents. Help single
parents to work toward:
- Identifying a workable social support network
- Working with their finances until they feel "in control."
- Quality, dependable childcare arrangements.
- Realistic guidance and discipline techniques that can be sustained
even when a person is exhausted and overwhelmed.
- A rewarding social life and friendships
- Being able to collaborate effectively in childrearing with other
involved adults.
- Parents who are divorcing or divorced. Help parents
learn and practice effective co-parenting skills, especially communication
and conflict management skills. The sooner parents are involved in divorce
education, the less likely they are to initiate litigation against each
other.
Tailor the program to help the participants reach identified
mileposts.
- Have you planned for experiences that have sufficient intensity and are
offered over enough time for participants to actually change?
- Give special attention to realistic recruitment and retention issues
— including timing and
location of sessions.
Assure that staff members are well trained, well supervised and
culturally competent.
- Do your hiring and training policies address cultural competency
— including empathy,
responsiveness to families, and respect for individual differences?
- Is the participant-staff ratio sufficient to accomplish the program
goals?
- Is the planned program actually implemented?
- Is support provided to encourage vitality and reduce burnout among staff
members working with high-risk participants?
Develop realistic and effective evaluation plans.
- Before, or at the beginning of the program, collect information on the
knowledge, attitudes and/or behaviors that are the focus of the program.
- Assess the degree to which the planned program is implemented.
- Are participants’ needs, interests and expectations being met on an
ongoing basis?
- The degree of success in reaching the goal(s) is measured and documented
at the end of the program – and possibly at appropriate intervals after the
program has been completed.
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Core Competencies for Home Visitors and Their
Supervisors
Recommended
Practices: A Review Of The Literature On Parent Education And Support
written by Margaret B. Brown, Ph.D., Cooperative Extension, University of
Delaware, and reviewed by the Faculty Advisory Panel
Measuring the
Fit with Best Practices: A Guide for Program Planners, Program Implementers and
Proposal Writers
Parent
Education and Support ~ Programming Resources, Research, Key Organizations, and
Advocacy
Summarized by Dr. Patricia Tanner Nelson, Family and Human Development
Specialist, Cooperative Extension, University of Delaware from materials
prepared by Dr. Margaret B. Brown, Cooperative Extension, University of
Delaware..